1. Attraction

Step 1, Attraction. One look, and one chance is all we have. Attraction is the most important step because it’s what either makes or breaks your approach to a woman. There’s many ways to state this step of Attraction. Every time you see a women, key principles is the 3-second rule. You have 3 seconds to either approach her or part your way. No less or no longer. Any longer than 3 seconds you will automatically lose value. Demonstrating higher value (DHV) is the key of the attraction phase. Women tend to chase and be interested in Men who demonstrate more value then them. No one wants to be with someone who they feel is less valuable because it’ll decrease their chances of survival and replication. We as men have to lose the feeling of rejection and anxiety. Rejection happens but trial is always better, if you’re shut down don’t have a heart break just go open another set and restart like you do in a video game. Go out there and approach the set (set is where the woman aka target is, and the group she’s involved with). When you approach a set you have to use indirect openers: an indirect openers is a statement or open-ended question that doesn’t portray you as a potential suitor. In simple words, don’t come off as a person who automatically seems like you’re hitting on her. Make this indirect opener as if you have something on your mind and she just happened to be there. An indirect opener can be something involved with the social environment, or atmosphere in your settings. For example, “How are you guys liking the DJ/music in this place,” or “You guys seem like a fans of this restaurant can I get some advice on how to get started,” or “I don’t mean to interrupt but me and my friends over there are having a discussion about love. Do you think you can explain the difference between someone loving somebody, and being in love.” In all honesty it doesn’t matter what the opener states, as long as you don’t come off as a potential suitor but can open the set for acceptance. Once you’ve opened the set you need to entertain the obstacles (people who are accompanied by the target) earning their acceptance increases your value and demonstrates that you’re not solemnly after the target. For emphasize, you need to use what we call negs (a negative compliment) to shut down these “bitch shields” that some targets might have, because remember we are chasing some of the most valuable women: high standards. Moving on to negs, negs can be anything that comes off as a negative compliment such as “those nails are really pretty, are they real?” or, “You know you’re really beautiful but beauty is common what makes you different from every other girl,” or “[interrupt the target & talk to the set] hold on let me finish my story, gosh is she always like that, you can dress her up but you can’t take her anywhere.” OR negging can be based on what she may tell you. For example, if she says she models be like, “You model, what are you like a hand model?” Remember the key principle when seducing a woman is to demonstrate higher value. ALSO SIDE NOTE: be humorous, there’s difference between humor and absurdity. Just cause you can say anything doesn’t mean you can literally say anything such as, “oh don’t get any ideas I’m married with three kids” cause then you’ll be shutting yourself automatically. Women like a guy who is humorous and be different. Subsequently, to earn the sets trust and her value you must keep a strong conversation. In the beginning of the set you are asked to open with an open-ended question so the set doesn’t automatically shut you down, opinions and debating are always fun. Key principle in holding a conversation can be done with multi-threading, meaning having a conversation, and then asking something else, and then bringing or expanding on something she might have said and then leading back to the first thing you asked. That way you don’t run out of things to discuss and just build value and prevent awkward moments. Something I might have forgotten to mention earlier about sets, don’t be afraid if the set also has men, chances are their just friends, family, or co-workers. If the guy isn’t getting any action from her chances are they ain’t involved. Furthermore, step one attraction is mostly about a woman liking you, wanting to know more about you. So therefore, when you’re talking to the target and the set you have build rapport. You can tell stories that demonstrate high value, such as talking about ex girlfriends or beautiful colleagues. Mention that they’re models, go-go dancers, erotic dancers, actors, even if it isn’t true, tell stories that build value. Talk about crazy adventures you, friends, and other women have had. Women tend to like a guy who is adventurous. If the set hears about your stories with beautiful women they’re going to think, “wow this guy is liked by attractive women there must be more to him, he’s mysterious.” Also something to keep in mind when opening a set, always come off as if you were leaving as if you have more important things to do. That way they’ll tend to pull you back in and keep conversations going. Once you have won the sets comfort, acceptance, and value you can isolate the target and that’s part of the next session, Phase 2, COMFORT.

I might have forgotten to state this earlier, but all my research and dedication has come from one man’s theory known as “The Mystery Method,” by Erik Von Markovik. The theory of attracting and seducing women was established by this man’s lifetime of trials at love and heart breaks. He created this theory and named his followers, Venusian Artist. Ultimately, evolving into Pick Up Artists (PUA). Therefore with that said, a basic breakdown of the method revolves around three basic concepts, Attract, Comfort, Seduce, respectively. I will discuss the concepts one by one in the following blogs. 

The meaning of life can be defined by many people in many different ways. However, regardless of personal beliefs, our main purpose in the world is to Survive & Replicate. Man, since the caveman years, has always worked for a Woman. What a Woman thinks about, what she wants, and how she acts is the greatest mystery on this world in respect to religion. Women choose the Alpha Male, a Man who she can feel secure with and can protect her, to increase her chances of survival and replication. She doesn’t need another ordinary guy, another nice guy, another friend. She wants a Man who she feels is worth fighting for, as well as meets her expectations. In essence she thinks the same way we do. So our mission as Men is prove to her how we’re different and reverse her method. Make her chase us and keep wanting more from us. Quick metaphor, let’s think of ourselves as banks and every time she spends time with you she invest $5.00 (quantity doesn’t matter). And let’s say she does this repetitively, at the end of the day she spent time with you 10 times (a total of $50.00) and another guy 5 times (a total of $25.00), as a human which bank account do you think she rather choose? Of course the one with the most invest. Therefore, simple as this our goal is to make sure we demonstrate more value than her and other guys out there. Session 1

Basic Principles

No woman wakes up saying, “God, I hope I don’t get swept off my feet today!” Now she might say, “This is a really bad time for me,” or something like, “I just need some space,” or my personal favorite, “I’m really into my career right now.” You believe that? Neither does she. You know why? Because she’s lying to you, that’s why. You understand me? Lying! It’s not a bad time for her. She doesn’t need any space. And she may be into her career, but what she’s really saying is, “uh get away from me now,” or possibly, “Try harder, stupid.” But which one is it? Sixty perfcent of all human communication is non-verbal, body language; thirty percent is your tone. So that means that ninety percent of what you’re saying ain’t coming out of your mouth. Of course she’s going to lie to you! She’s a nice person. She doesn’t even know you….yet. Luckily, the fact is that just like the rest of us, even a beautiful doesn’t know what she wants until she sees it, and that’s where I come in. My job is to open her eyes. Basic principles: No matter what, no matter when, no matter who… any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet. He just needs the right broom. via -Hitch